If something is going to change your life let. It might be the best decision you could make. Live everyday as your last day. You never know what is going to happen that day. So avoid the people that bring you down. Surround yourself with only the people who make you smile and laugh and make you happy. Follow your heart. A lot of the times when people come into your life you know they are there to serve a purpose or help you out or even figure out who you are or who you may become. Everyone experiences pain, loneliness, and fear. At that time it may seem horrible and a really tough time to go through, but when you look back on it all you will understand that going through that gave you the strength, heart, and mind set to overcome anything else that comes your way.
When we look back 20 years from now most people will remember the big things like being on a varsity sport, being part of the so called popular click, even the times they thought they were in love when they were 15. When I look back I think of all the little things that created the big things. I will always remember the nights I spent crying I was laughing so hard with my best friends, which are pretty much family, the team bonding and camps and all the inside jokes that will be impossible to forget. Even though I have taken so many pictures that will never replace having been there at that time. I will still always smile when I think of all the little things.
Life is too short to regret. Anything that you might want to regret, just think of as a lessoned learned, a new page in your life. So smile as much as you can, laugh as much as you breath and love as long you live.
Caitlyn this is a really good post! I get what you're saying about how in the long run we won't remember the drama or catty girls and just enjoy this time since we will never get it back. Keep up the good work! :)
ReplyDeleteGreat post! Everything you said just bleeds the truth. Life is too short to fret about things that won't matter in the end - worrying really isn't necessary when you have God there to see you through everything. I truly do believe that the small things in life really are the big things - you just might not notice it at the time.
ReplyDeleteKeep up the good work!